In reality, we find ourselves drawn to the mean, troubled guys who can’t be bothered while secretly holding onto the hope that we’ll be the one to get him to change his evil ways. If a guy is a known womanizer with a reputation for breaking hearts (ahem, John Mayer), then there’s a high probability he will also break your heart.
Because of this, getting a regular guy to commit can sometimes be tricky.
However, that’s child’s play compared to male celebrities who can have pretty much any girl, at any time, and do so with no strings attached.
However, without a basic understanding of how men operate when it comes to relationships, it’s all too easy to scare them away.
The guys Taylor dates aren’t just men, they’re want a relationship with a great girl, men have a lot more reservations when it comes to entering into a relationship, namely, losing their freedom.
Another recurring theme in Taylor’s love life is that the guys she dates seem to drop her in sudden, callous ways (i.e. Taylor paints the guys out to be the bad ones, but as we’ve said before, when a guy feels a needy energy coming from a woman, he will want to get away from her and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
Neediness is a death sentence for any relationship.
(More: 5 Things Every Girl Needs to Know About Men) Taylor’s penchant for smothering would be terrifying to a normal guy, so it’s no wonder she can’t get any of her celebrity boyfriends to stick around for more than a few months!
Guys need an incentive to commit to a relationship, they need to clearly see that life as a bachelor pales significantly in comparison to the life they have with their girl. Instead, she feeds right into the fears most men have of being trapped and suffocated by a relationship.
If Taylor Swift keeps going on the same track in the love department, she may want to consider naming her next album: “Maybe It’s Me.” Seriously, girlfriend is gorgeous, rich, talented, sweet, and yet she can’t–for the life of her—seem to hang onto a man for more than a few months. I do know people who have met and interviewed her though and by all accounts, she’s an incredibly kind and genuine person, which is not something you find too often in Hollywood.
The purpose of this article is not to bash her, but rather, to learn from her.
She’ll buy a home near the guy’s house, she’ll buy extravagant gifts, she’ll go above and beyond to accommodate him.