Should I continue on the pill or tell my husband that if he wants sex, he has to share responsibility in avoiding pregnancy? And you can keep having sex without pills, condoms, or pregnancies.
Emphasize that your giggles are evidence of arousal, not disgust or contempt. My doctor just prescribed me a new pill that will likely increase my weight and make me even moodier, but it should decrease the length of the period. I think my husband should suck it up and wear a condom. It is ironic that the pill protects me from pregnancy if I have sex, but we’re having less sex due to the weight gain, bloating, bleeding, no sex drive, and other side effects.
My doctor does not think other options for birth control (e.g., an intrauterine device) will be a good fit for me.
I am a hetero female, but one of my biggest fantasies is for a guy to dress up in women’s underwear.
Not full-blown drag, just a teddy, fishnets, and some heels. I just want him to parade around a bit, and just for me.
I’ve had the ovaries to bring this up only twice to men I’ve been with.
My first boyfriend was game, but I was so insecure with my sexuality at the time that I let it go.
Unfortunately, LITL, he took you at your word when you said you weren’t interested in a relationship.
Keeping things “purely casual” with you meant he was free to pursue a relationship with someone else.
Did that mean things were over between you two (which would make the timing of the last fuck an insult)? Let him know that you were thinking about taking things to the next level—ughers to that phrase—before he told you about the other girl.
Or was he willing to pass on this other girl if you were ready for a relationship (which would make tossing him out before he could elaborate a mistake)? You were starting to fall for him, you hoped he felt the same, and you were disappointed.
I was watching a porno featuring a hot gay threesome. As he was beginning to elaborate, I told him to leave. If he had told me this before we had sex, Dan, I would have been able to have a constructive conversation about this.