Dating Advice #3: Embrace your single status If you hate being single, you may come across as too eager and desperate, which scares good men away.
We usually date people that are “ranked” similarly to us, i.e. This is also applies intelligence, so that means that if you’re a smart woman, then smart men are going dig you! Smart guys don’t feel insecure about not being “needed” and instead dig smart women because they know that there’s so much more to a relationship than power dynamics.
Instead, a smart guy really digs a woman who can enhance his life in ways that only he can imagine. We all tend to stick to our own interests for the most part and rely heavily on others to introduce us to new topics, music, books etc.
According to these studies, men are intimidated by a smart, successful woman.
They don’t feel “needed” because the woman is capable of fending for herself. I think men dig smart women, and I think it’s exactly those types of men that women really want.
She doesn’t need to be entertained because she’s got her own life and her own interests, and that makes her even hotter.
Sarah Burke Sarah is a full-time content marketer, part-time freelancer.
Here’s why: Smart women want a boyfriend but don’t particularly need one. She doesn’t need him to pay her rent or buy her pretty things.
Instead, a smart woman genuinely Smart men dig smart women because they’re smart themselves.
Instead of letting dating control you, do what’s within your control.