There are some instances in which getting done up just for sex isn't appropriate, and he'd certainly rather have sex with the "au natural" you than not have sex at all.
But when you have the option to get done up, and you find yourself tempted to think "oh, he doesn't really care" or "we love each other so much it doesn't matter," remember this point. There is something intimate about seeing a girl without makeup.
As we’re running headlong into the holiday season, it’s only natural for the singletons amongst us to look around at all of the happy couples with a certain level of bitterness and envy. As this goes on, you become increasingly bitter and upset, complaining about the “impossible standards” of others while simultaneously trying to meet or those standards because you know that your life will be incomplete until you find that special someone.
When you’re single and alone in a season that celebrates relationships and togetherness But because the strongest force in the universe is irony rather than gravity, it can seem that the harder you strive for finding that special someone, the more it slips away from you. The problem is that you’ve fallen into a classic trap: you’ve started becoming desperate and needy. It is the magic formula to make relationships disappear and drive off potential life-partners. Neediness is the state of excessive desire for affirmation, affection or reassurance from others.
Needy people often will say that they’re looking for a relationship in order to “complete” them or to find someone who brings “fulfilment” into their lives…
essentially looking for someone to magically bring meaning into their lives and make them whole.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
There is no question that you look better with your hair and makeup done than you do without it.
If your boyfriend tells you that you are hotter without it, because he prefers when you "look more natural," he is either lying or you aren't doing your makeup correctly. Initial experiences leave an impression on the mind much deeper than most of those that follow; this is simply the way the human brain works.
Makeup is designed to make you look better; saying that it doesn't is like saying that a fresh coat of paint on a house doesn't make the house look better: it is only true when someone screws up the paint job by using the wrong colors or applying the right ones incorrectly. So make sure you are looking great the first few times you meet him; he will remember it.
You can avoid falling into this category by understanding your complexion and wearing makeup that is compatible with your natural look; but regardless, know that men definitely hold you to lower standards when you aren't made up.