The simple fact is that you can’t “fix” the reason he doesn’t want to commit to you. If he tells you that he enjoys his time with you and he’s sticking around, obviously he’s interested in you.
He even said that just because he isn’t ready to start a serious relationship now, he might be able to later.
A few weeks ago, when I brought it up again, he said he wasn’t able to commit to me because of his job and that he isn’t able to move away from it.
You effectively become dependent on “what should be” and take for granted what actually is right in front of you.
You will sabotage the future of your relationship when you only focus on the official relationship title (or lack thereof).
You’re dating an amazing guy, and while things are going well, you’re a bit confused. When you’re together, it’s like you can conquer the world as a pair. You’re sure that you read into the signs that he might be falling in love with you, and yet, all of a sudden, he seems to have done a 180.
There are definitely signs he loves you but is scared. He seems to retreat into his tough turtle shell, leaving you standing there with your heart on your sleeve. You’ve been so careful about not coming on too strong. In today’s video, I’m going to explain exactly why he’s pulled away from you, what’s going on inside men’s minds when this happens, and, more importantly, what you can do about it when he shows those signs he loves you but is scared.Maybe he’s having some family issues or has financial problems that are the #1 priority on his mind right now. The most important thing to realize is: if you learn to not take it personally. All you can control are your own reactions to situations life throws your way.The truth is, the actual reason a man gives when he says he does not want to commit is irrelevant.Question: Before we started dating, my guy had just gotten out of a really bad relationship.