But outside of Kechara, rarely do others want to or will cover you over and over again. The river is likened to many others around you that are into the same goal and work hard. You are mature and older and you have to be double most of the people around you.
But that is what you have been doing your whole life.
When you make promises to your teacher or your fellow dharma staff and you don’t keep it, you set such a bad example.
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Dear friends, I received yet another apology from a student. I do not profess to know everything or have all the answers, but I do know doing our work well is essential.
If your mind goes up and down and up and down like a see-saw, it is not Kechara who made you this way. Staying in Kechara you will see-saw and leaving Kechara you will see-saw in your new environment.
In fact in your new environment you will see-saw worse having experienced the blessings of Kechara and our goals.
We have direction, we have purpose, we have hope and we have AN INCREDIBLE GOAL. Whether you are in or out IS NOT PHYSICAL BUT MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL.
You may be in, but if you are still attached to your old life of sleep, deceptive freedom, friends, conveniences, easy life, socializing et al, then you will not perform well here or anywhere. Whatever you are failing in Kechara is what you were failing in before you came to Kechara.
Whether you want to do work in secular or spiritual, it is the same qualities that will get you there. What your parents didn’t teach you, is left to me to teach you.
What did the life of secular ‘freedom’ you had before Kechara bring you? Whatever insecurities and failures you feel or self-hatred you feel before Kechara you brought into Kechara and into my world and you leave it to me to deal with.
Forgive me if it sounds offensive, I do not mean it to be.