You will always feel like an intruder in his family.Even if you met him after he divorced, in the eyes of everyone around you, you are the other woman.They will always call you “that girl he’s dating.” Your friends will associate you with “that divorced man she’s dating.” You constantly have to prove that you’re not just another woman. Sadly most people will label an expiry date for your relationship and sad to say they’re usually right.
Most people who date a divorced man ALWAYS ignore the basic facts and think that just because you've “fallen in love” everything will be all sunshine and rainbows.
The truth is dating a divorced man is not a picnic.
Most divorced men are never truly rid of the ex wives. They most likely have joints assets and even after the divorce, they are still connected in some sort of realm.
They share custody of children and so chances are they communicate regularly, whether the divorce ended bitterly or smoothly.
To them, you are a spare wheel, a distraction, an amusement toy for their friend.
The Other Woman – That is your name when you date a divorced man.
When it comes to dating, we all know what a struggle it is to find that perfect partner. You have all the necessary equipments to take you through the dating stage.
All the check boxes are ticked, except for one – he is a divorcee.
They will not friend you on Facebook, they won't follow you on Twitter or even bother to get to know you.
Every time your man tries to invite them for a coffee, the will find every excuse in the book not to come and if they do come, you will feel their coldness towards you.
That romantic getaway you planned, you will find yourself bringing the kids along.